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Manti Te'o and Lennay Kekua: Highlighting Their Most Important Tweets

Tyler Conway
Jun 7, 2018

Former Notre Dame Fighting Irish linebacker Manti Te'o is speaking outโ€”again. Te'o will appear on Katie Couric's syndicated talk show on Thursday with the purpose of giving his side of what happened between him and Lennay Kekua, his fake purported girlfriend.

This interview comes less than a week after Te'o spoke off camera withย ESPN's Jeremy Schaap, when he categorically denied being complicit in the scheme reportedly run byย Ronaiah Tuiasosopo.ย 

But while everyone is worried about Te'o's level of complicityย in deceiving the public, it's important to take a step back and look at how this whole mess transpired over the long term. A man doesn't send and receive 1,000 phone calls (via SportsCenter's Twitter feed) without there being some groundwork laid first:

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Source provides ESPN's Jeremy Schaap with what source says are Manti Te'o's phone records from May-Sept. --> twitter.com/SportsCenter/sโ€ฆ

โ€” SportsCenter (@SportsCenter) January 23, 2013"

The following is a detailed timeline of the relationship between Kekua and Te'o. We'll interweave tweets from a Deadspin story exposing Kekua's tweets, while also interjecting what we know about what transpired during that time period.

(All tweets are courtesy ofย Deadspin.)

October 2011: "Lennayย Kekua" Joins Twitter, Has First Known Interaction withย Te'o

According toย Te'o's interview with ESPN's Jeremyย Schaap, the Notre Dame linebacker andย Kekua first linked up in 2009 when she sent him a Facebook friend request. That coincides with the timelineย of theย South Bend Tribune'sย now-proven-false story of the two getting their stares "pleasantly tangled" after the Irish's 45-38 victory over the Stanford Cardinal.

Over the first couple of years of their relationship, things were casual at best between the two. Per Te'o, they would talkย occasionallyย on the phone, through text messages and on Facebook, but it was never more than an acquaintanceship.

That all changed during Te'o's junior year whenย Kekuaย calledย Te'oย prior to Notre Dame's contest against Purdue. By Te'o's account, she was having problems with her boyfriend and needed someone to talk to.ย 

The Irish played Purdue on Oct. 1, 2011. One week later, Kekuaย (then using the handle @lovalovaloveYOU) first appeared on the social-networking website, using the image of a woman named Diane O'Meara, who apparently has no connection to the ruse:ย 

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8-Oct-11
2:47 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
I was born today into the Twitter world.

"

Two days later,ย Kekua's firstย verifiedย interaction with the Irish star happened (@MTeo_5 was Te'o's Twitter handle and still is.):

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10-Oct-11
2:05 PM
MTeo_5
@lovalovaloveYOUย nice to meet u too ma'am

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Deadspin's account later has a bevy of tweets from Oct. 13 to Oct. 18, detailing her relationship struggles, mentioning her father's bout with leukemia and an interaction withย Te'oย where he sent her Twitter followers.ย 

October 2011:ย Te'o Is Nowย Kekua's "Babylove"

For a girl who seemed heartbroken over her relationship drama, Ms.ย Kekuaย certainly moved fast in making her adoration ofย Te'oย apparent. She callsย Te'oย her "babylove" before Notre Dame's home contest versus USC

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22-Oct-11
4:00 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
NOTRE DAME vs. USC stoked for myย Babyloveย to have a great game! Play your heart out & know that I am cheering you on from this wedding! โคU#5

"

According toย Deadspin,ย Kekuaย was purportedly attending a wedding reception for Jacob and Natalie Reid. There is no record known of any Jacob Reid being married to a Natalieย Reid, per a Nexus search done byย Deadspin.

Eight minutes later, she callsย Te'oย her "headache." Perhaps that's a term of endearment in the twisted world ofย Lennayย Kekua:ย 

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22-Oct-11
4:08 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
I'd rather be in South Bend right now.ย Uggh. 3 more weeks! 2 My headache, @MTeo_5, you better smash on some Trojans! โค

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It should be noted that calling someone "babylove" is no confirmation of a relationship. A quickย Twitter searchย shows that it's a rather innocuous term, bestowed upon whomever anyone so pleases.ย Kekuaย also later says she's single on both Oct. 27 and Oct. 30, 2011.ย 

That's an important distinction because there are inconsistencies with theย timelineย Te'o presented toย Schaapย later in their string of interactions.ย 

November and December 2011:ย Kekuaย andย Te'oย Are in a Relationship?

It seems by late in the 2011 football season,ย Kekuaย andย Te'oย had begun at least forming some semblance of a relationship. Though no boyfriend-girlfriend status is on record,ย Kekuaย sent out a message prior to Notre Dame's game against Boston College on Nov. 19, 2011, callingย Te'oย her "other half":

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19-Nov-11
1:36 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
IT'Sย GAMETIMEย FOR MY OTHER HALF!!! Go Irish! #5ย babyyy! Love you Honey! You are most welcome for my amazingย pre-game speech!ย lolย GOD BLESS!

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Kekuaย then travels to New Zealand and doesn't make another mention ofย Te'oย or her love life again until Nov. 26.ย On that date is when the first set of concrete contradictions come in from Te'o's story presented toย Schaapย and the one he has told others.

At halftime of the Irish's loss to Stanford,ย Kekua, allegedly a Stanford graduate, says she hopes Notre Dame's halftime adjustments work against her Cardinal. Oh, and she also calls herself Te'o's "#ProudGF":

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26-Nov-11
7:10 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
I'm not a football coach or anything, but I hope these halftime adjustments work. Go #5! Love you Monty!ย lolย #ProudGFย Kiaย Ora!

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Three days later,ย Kekua supposedly underwent an emergency blood transfusion and was rushed to the hospital. A couple of days after that,ย Te'o or someone pretending to be the linebacker sent out a tweet fromย Kekua's account thanking everyone for their prayers:

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1-Dec-11
4:41 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
Everyone this isย manti.ย Lennayย wanted to thank ALL OF YOU for your prayers. She loves all of you and wants u to know that she is doingย ok.

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These tweets fly directly in the face of whatย Te'oย toldย Schaapย last Friday. At multiple points in the interview, the Notre Dame linebacker contended he andย Kekua's relationshipย did not escalate until April 28, the date of her reported car accident.

Te'o'sย timelineย withย Schaapย alsoย contradictsย what he toldย Sports Illustrated'sย Peteย Thamel. According toย Thamel,ย Te'oย told him that he andย Kekuaย started dating on Oct. 15, 2011, which puts the "Babylove" and "#ProudGF" tweets in betterย perspective.ย 

No matter which version of the events you choose to believe, it's obvious that there are someย inconsistenciesย left unaccounted for.ย 

December 2011:ย Lennayย Travels to Hawaii, More Contradictions Spring Up

Following the blood transfusion fiasco, there was little interaction betweenย Kekuaย and her purported boyfriend on social media. She goes on living a jet-setting life, traveling internationally, while she mentions her boyfriend deleting his Twitter, coinciding withย Te'o's departure from the website on Dec. 17:ย 

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Goodbye twitter!

โ€”ย Mantiย Te'oย (@MTeo_5)ย December 17, 2011"

(Te'oย did not tweet again until Jan. 25, 2012)

What's more interesting is the factย Kekuaย returned stateside in late December, making another trip to Hawaii. From what we know ofย Kekua's trip,ย Te'oย would not have been in the state during her time there. Notre Dameย arrived in Orlandoย for the Champs Sports Bowl on Dec. 23, 2011, and the team was there until after its game against Florida State on Dec. 29.

According to a tweet fromย Kekua, she left Hawaii on Dec. 26, at least three days beforeย Te'oย could theoretically arrive:ย 

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26-Dec-11
4:37 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
@Nikkybabyyyyย beautiful sissy! love it! I leave to Hawaii tomorrow! anyways, have a lovely day!ย Ofas!

"

Once again, thisย timelineย contradicts whatย Te'oย toldย Schaap. According toย Te'o, he first lied to his father about meetingย Kekuaย in person around New Year's Day in 2012, no fewer than five days after she purportedly left the state. But here is an exact quote from whatย Te'oย toldย Schaapย on Friday:ย 

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Yeah, a few days later, I asked my dad if I could go sleep over at one of my friend's houses and that while I'm sleeping over, I'm going to go try and meet up with Lennay. I go to my friend's house, which was about 15, 20 minutes from where she was at. It was close, but I didn't have a car, and she did. But she said that her brothers were using it and she couldn't get there. So we ended up not meeting. So when I got home, Dad asked, "Hey, did you get to see her?" And, to avoid all the questions, I just said "Yeah, Dad, I saw her."

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It should be noted that this was during a period when Te'oย had deleted his Twitter, so he would have had a hard time knowing this without looking at his girlfriend's feed.ย 

Kekuaย later returned to Hawaii in February 2012, a time when Te'oย could have been in his home state. But if this is the instance he's referencing, then there's some major date-fudging going on.

February 2012:ย Te'oย andย Kekuaย Reconnect on Valentine's Day/Kekua's Birthday

For the first month and a half of 2012, the connection betweenย Kekuaย andย Te'oย went radio silent. The two shared a rather curt interaction on Feb. 8, when Kekuaย toldย Te'oย that she was glad "all is well" with him.ย 

It wasn't until Feb. 14โ€”Valentine's Day andย Kekua's purported birthdayโ€”that the pair linked back up. Here is a string of tweets the two sent to and seemingly about one another on that day, which is still well beforeย Kekua's car accident:

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14-Feb-12
3:00 AM
MTeo_5
Happy birthday to my girl and best friend @lovalovaloveYOUย have a great 22nd birthday grumpy!

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14-Feb-12
12:09 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
Happy Valentine's Day to my best friend, superhero & my VALENTINE, @MTeo_5 Thanks for everything and may God bless you!ย iLoveYouXO

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14-Feb-12
4:07 PM
lovalovaloveYOU
When you fall in love with your best friend, you'll discover everything life has to offer except THE END. #Love

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April-May 2012:ย Lennayย Gets into a Car Accident, and the Aftermath

The first few months of 2012 are where the interaction betweenย Kekuaย andย Te'oย slows down noticeably. She says she loves him and calls him "babe" on Mar. 18, but the newest developments in the story come fromย Kekuaย alone.

She changes her Twitter handle to the now-infamous (@LennayKay) on Mar. 22 and quickly thereafter sets her profile to "private," making her followers the only people able to see her tweets. All information obtained from here on out will be courtesy ofย Te'o, whose account remains public, and others whoย retweetedย or quotedย Kekua.

Also noteworthy: On April 9,ย Ronaiah Tuiasosopo, the purported mastermind behind this scheme, was in an actual car accident.ย 

Nineteen days later, the woman whom he was pretending to be coincidentally went through a life-threatening crash of her own. Here isย U'ilaniย Raeย Kekuaย (@iloveyoualani),ย Lennay's purported sister, sending out a heartfelt message about her kin's battle after the crash:

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28-Apr-12
10:36 AM
iloveyoualani
:'(((( @LennayKayย I love you! Don't give up! I can't see my life without you! You've always been a fighterย babygirl! We trust in you God!

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It was also on that date that someone pretending to beย Kekua's brother calledย Te'oย and told him she was in a coma after being in a car accident.ย Te'oย has consistently referred to this crash as a turning point in his relationship withย Kekua.ย 

For his part,ย Tuiasosopoย later sent out his prayers toย Kekuaย on Twitter, and seemingly added another wrinkle to the story by insinuating the person at fault for her crash was driving under the influence:

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2-May-12
12:38 PM
iWorship
Praying forย Lala! You can do this! Keep fighting Sis! For those of you who ever plan on driving drunk, don't be selfish. Sad. Love you!

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It was later in May when Tuiasosopoย andย Te'oย started having more frequent interaction on Twitter, calling each other "sole," a Samoan term of endearment that essentially means "bro."

June-August 2012:ย Kekuaย Struggles With Rehab, Gets Diagnosed With Leukemia

"Be strong. Be brave. Never give up." That was the phrase of the summer for the love story of Mantiย Te'oย andย Lennayย Kekua. It was first sent out to the public on June 23, whileย Te'oย was trying to support his girlfriend's recovery after the car accident:

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23-Jun-12
11:07 AM
MTeo_5
@LennayKayย Be strong. Be brave. Never give up. Love u.

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That phrase, which is derivative of Psalm 31:24 in the Bible, again came fromย Te'oย a week later.ย Deadspinย describes this as "a somewhat oblique" announcement ofย Kekua's cancer diagnosis:

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30-Jun-12
11:42 PM
MTeo_5
RT @LennayKay: Be strong. Be brave. Never give up. #Papa

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A little less than a month later,ย Te'oย continues to use the phrase asย Kekuaย purportedly battles with leukemia:

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22-Jul-12
9:13 PM
MTeo_5
Be strong. Be brave. Never give up. #3words @LennayKay

"

It's worth noting here that whileย Te'oย never went to visit his sick girlfriend, Notre Dame campย did not open until Aug. 3. According toย Te'o, visiting Kekuaย during this trying time "never really crossed my mind," perย Schaap.

Sept. 12, 2012:ย Lennayย Kekuaย Dies

A little more than two weeks into what turned out to be a magical season for the Irish, tragedy strikes Te'o's life. On Sept. 11, 2012,ย Annette Santiago, Te'o's grandmother, passed away at age 72.ย 

Less than 24 hours later, Te'o suffers another loss, as he once again gets a call from Kekua's brother with bad news. At 4 p.m., Te'o shared his grief about the death of his girlfriend on Twitter:ย 

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12-Sep-12
4:00 PM
MTeo_5
@LennayKayย you will always be with me wherever I go! Tell dad, BJ, papaย Ima, papa Santiago, and grandma that I said hello! I love you! #574L

"

At the wishes of Kekua, Te'o forgoes her funeral to play in the Irish's game against Michigan State on Sept.15. He records 12 tackles en route to Notre Dame's first huge win of the season versus the then-No. 10 Spartans. After the game, head coach Brian Kelly hands Te'o the game ball and tells him it's for Kekua.

Notre Dame goes on to an undefeated season, with Te'o's story garnering massive media attention. With his newfound fame helping spur his story, Te'o finishes second in the Heisman Trophy balloting behind Johnny Manziel.

On Dec. 6, just days before the Heisman Trophy presentation, Te'o discovers something that changes everything.ย 

Jan. 16, 2013:ย Ronaiah Tuiasosopoย Comes Clean

With Deadspin's report looming, the man behind this devious and twisted plot finally comes clean to Te'o. In a series of direct messages over Twitter, Tuiasosopo came clean about his involvement.

Kekua was Tuiasosopo the whole time, with accomplices helping him weave an intricate web of lies thatย deceivedย Te'o for more than a year. Here is a look at the most relevant messages Tuiasosopo sent Te'o on Jan. 16:

And that, my friends, so ends the tale of what we know about the twisted romance between "Lennayย Kekua" andย Mantiย Te'o.