I know it isn't easy, but forget about the questionable red card. Forget about the own goal. Forget you even watched the match.
If I told you that Newcastle would play over an hour with 10 men and still draw 1-1 with Sunderland in the Stadium of Light, how upset could you really be?
Despite taking only one point from Sunday's Tyne-Wear derby, there is much for the Toon Army to be pleased about.
Let's look at some of the positives from the match.