A good friend called me today and suggested I write a letter to Buffalo Bills tight end Kevin Everett, explaining how I’d been through a situation similar to his own.
For those of you who don't know, Everett suffered a life-threatening spinal injury last Sunday.
I listened to my friend’s words and took them in, but then I had a reality check. Everett’s injury came while he pursued his dream, his passion, and occupation. My injury was the result of too much drinking and obnoxious behavior.
I wasn’t doing something that my heart was in, I wasn’t doing anything for which I might be admired. I had overdone my drinking, as I’ve done many nights, and for no reason at all.
Now five months later, the left side of my face is paralyzed, my right knee doesn’t bend, and I'm blind in my right eye. I often ask myself, “Was the party lifestyle worth it?” No, my friends, it was not.
I do believe that God kept me here for a reason—I hope I find out what that reason is some day.
All the alcohol, drugs, late nights…I have done it all. Since April 26, 2007, I’ve had a million thoughts race through my head. Nowadays I appreciate God, family, and friends a lot more. And I’d also like to apologize to anyone I have ever hurt or caused any harm.
This world we live in is fantastic but it can change in a flash. When life throws you a curve ball...KNOCK IT OVER THE FENCE! I thank God everyday that I'm still here. Not all of us get a second chance...I'm thankful for my second chance and I'm going to do something great with it.
God Bless Kevin Everett and Go Bills,
Bart Upchurch
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4 months ago
Powerful article Bart—it really shows your true colors that you are willing to open up like that and talk about your mistakes in life and all you have learned from a tragic situation.
You also pay a much deserved tribute to the brave Kevin Everett for being so strong throughout his entire tragedy last season.
I wish both you and Kevin the best of luck, and I hope to read more articles of this nature going forward.
Z
4 months ago
Bart — though this is a very personal piece, I have to say that I was very inspired by the strong sense of confidence that you expressed after a traumatic experience. My heart goes out to you, and I think that Kevin would be the first to say that our pasts are just that... history. We can only control tomorrow!
Best,
Bryan
4 months ago
Nice article, Bart. I wish you well. I'm glad to see that you are staying positive
JF
4 months ago
The circumstances that led to the injuries are different. The ability to play the cards life dealt is extremely similar. Stay strong.
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